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"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy,they are are the charming gardeners who make our soul blossom"-- Marcel Proust
In Chinese, there is a saying that gold cannot buy your soulmates or best friends. I think this is very true. I don't consider myself a very popular person with many friends, but I do have 3 friends whom I think of as sisters and soulmates. With these three friends, I don't really have to be afraid to be myself and share my worries. In fact, one of them has been my childhood friend since 2 years of age. Many people often wonder, what is true friendship. By all means, I am not a professional "friend maker" but from my experience, having close friends are those who don't mind your silliness, get your jokes, laugh at the same stupid things, and are willing to give you honest advice, even if they are the ones you don' t really want to hear.
我常常聽到我媽跟爸說“千金難買好自己。“ 不知道你有沒有找到你的好知己呢?我覺得非常幸運也非常感謝天父爸爸賜給我三位好朋友,姐妹們。我們認識了很久, 其中一個我是從兩歲就認識。我們常常一起玩。另外連個好姐妹是在中文學校裡認識的。我們四個人常常會叫自己 “ Fantastic Four" 可最近不是很流行用#hashtag嗎?我們四個女孩字還沒找到我們的“那個人“所以現在常常叫自己#SLFF 意思就是 “single ladies friends forever" 或者是 ”single ladies fantastic four". 很搞笑吧。以前的我們常常會去追韓娛新聞和歌曲。看到 YOUTUBE 上的搞笑視頻可以笑個半天。現在我們慢慢地變得不一樣了。我們喜歡去出聊天,吃東西。 最近我們聊的事情就是為什麼我們四個還沒能夠找到我們的 “另外一半”。我們四個當中,有三位是獅子座的,一個雙子座。我想,身為其中一個獅子做的我,性格比較內向和怕尷尬。就是因為怕被拒絕而不太願意去嘗試。而我跟我那個從小就認識的朋友耶選擇了最多女性朋友的行業--護士。可能能夠認識異性朋友的機會比較小吧。可我相信,我們四個人不會一直孤單下去吧。只是時機未到而已。我那位雙子座的好姐妹曾經談過戀愛,可是最終還是分開。就好像 徐靜蕾的 《有一個地方只有我們知道》裡面的其中一句金句說 “沒有在一起的就是不對的人,對的人,你是不會失去他的。” 在我們還沒找到我們的 “Mr. Right" 前,就讓我們的友誼快樂陪伴著我們吧。友誼萬歲!